בנימה אישית ממנחה קבוצת LTP

כאב נתפס לעיתים כחלק בלתי נפרד מהיומיום שלנו. חיים לצד כאב כרוני פוגעים לנו באיכות החיים ומשום מה זה מתקבל כשיגרה.  זלזול, אדישות וחוסר סבלנות הפכו להיות תגובות מקובלות ושגרתיות עבור מי שמתמודד.ת עם כאב כרוני. אירועים פיזיים נכרכים באירועים נפשיים ויוצרים פלונטר אכזרי. פלונטר שנקרא בשפה של LTP “מלכודת כאב”.  מלכודת שמשפיעה על יחסים […]

כאב כרוני וגזלייטינג: אף אחד לא מכיר אותנו טוב יותר מאיתנו

יש מעט מאוד רגשות שפוגעים יותר מביטול. כאשר מישהו מערער בכוונה או שלא בכוונה את אמיתות החוויה שלנו, זה יכול להיות הרסני. חוויה מתמשכת שהאמת שלנו נשחקת באיטיות על ידי האחר יכולה להוביל לאובדן תחושת הערך העצמי ולערעור על השפיות שלנו. בשנת 1944 יצא לאקרנים הסרט ‘גזלייט’. הסרט עוקב אחר אישה שבעלה מתמרן אותה כדי […]

Depression & Chronic Pain: The Allure and The Trap

“The thing that gets me down – that makes we want to give up, is that it’s endless – that this is just my life. My focus, my time, my money – it all goes towards maintaining a baseline of bearable pain, and it feels futile – and like a trap. For me, it’s not […]

Chronic Pain & Gaslighting: Nobody Knows Us Better Than We Do

There are very few feelings that hurt more than invalidation. When someone intentionally or unintentionally undermines the reality of our lived experience, it can be devastating. An ongoing experience of having our truth slowly eroded by another can lead to a loss of sense of self and a questioning of our own sanity. In 1944, […]

Uncertainty: A journey from paralysis to courage

If human beings have learned anything over the past two years, it is the staggering uncertainty hiding behind every moment of our lives. When the COVID-19 storm first raged through the world, we all got hit with the realization that we have no idea what’s coming our way, and that whatever it is has the […]

Finding Hope in Trauma

Joanne woke up one morning not feeling well. It could be a regular winter virus, but it could also be something more serious, and with her notoriously weak immune system, she always errs on the side of caution. Joanne calls in sick and makes a doctor’s appointment. As she sits in the waiting room, she […]

When The Medical System Isn’t Enough

Oh, the medical system. How we with chronic pain depend on it, and how we wish we didn’t have to. Sometimes it comes through for us; we get the right diagnosis, the right prescription – the right care. Too often, however, those are the expectations we carry into our appointments, only to leave feeling frustrated, […]

The Cycle of Chronic Pain, Fear, and Trauma

Imagine this scene: A man is using a public shower on the beach to wash up after swimming: he puts shampoo in his hair, rubs it in, and then puts his head under the running water to rinse it out. What he doesn’t know, however, is that as he’s trying to rinse out the shampoo, […]

Stepping Back To See A Way Forward

You’re making breakfast, getting your kids to school, going to work, sitting through a long day, picking up your kids from school, buying your groceries, making dinner, doing laundry, and the list of tasks seems to never end. All day you have pain shooting through your body, screaming for your attention at every moment. The […]

Anger: A Call to Attention

The relentless frustration of yet another ineffective pain management option; why is it so hard to find treatments that help? The bubbling, boiling resentment about how unjust our pain is; why us? The fury of feeling  invisible to others; why is it so hard for them to listen and understand what we’re going through? Living […]